What It Feels Like (In A Girl)
I once heard a straight male friend talk about how being inside a vagina felt for him. He also briefly compared shapes, textures, something called "entrance-feel", squeeze... it was all very fascinating. I would like to challenge my male readers to blog or guest-blog (via e-mail) about their experiences with different types of vaginas. Not the women attached to them; this is specific to the vaginal structures themselves, including but not limited to shape, texture, look, clitoral location, and so on. Be creative. Be honest. But above all, be explicit and detailed. It's a fascinating topic for me, this look from the male perspective. If you're a lesbian, feel free to share, too; hey, the more, the merrier!
Ed. note: Make sure to click on the link below that says "no non-blogger comments yet", 'cuz that's where a lot of the good stuff is.
posted by Avatar at 9:02 AM
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16 Comments:
Smooth, warm and moist. That works. Also tight and enveloping. I like the full menu, but the V is sure fire explosion time.
Of course, it is different mish vs Doggy..the latter puts more pressure on a couple of important spots..not to mention the visuals.
Yikes, time to go home to Wife!
6/20/05 11:10 PM
I wish I had a nifty light-up vagina like that tunnel...then I could have a rave in it. If not, it would at least attract moths.
6/21/05 11:13 AM
Yeah, but a vag with its own electrical supply would eventually overheat, and blow a fuse. You'd always have to have someone in there, replacing fuses and re-wiring stuff. Plus all the inspections to make sure it's up to code.
6/21/05 11:21 AM
Warm Apple pie.
Just kidding. :-)
To me it feels as if I conquered something, my quest has reached it's pinnacle. To be inside of a woman is both an honor and a pleasure.
It's odd because no two look alike, nor do they feel alike. Kinda like a fingerprint. Each and every female is unique in their own way.
How emabarrasing. I'm leaving now, this will teach me to start drinking before noon.
6/22/05 1:03 PM
OK, I took the bait :-). I did a trackback-ping with the link to my post.
6/22/05 2:36 PM
Man... this is a tough one... but one that begs (almost as much as I do) to be satisfied. I have been married for 8 years and to tell you the truth really can't remember anything other than my wonderful wife. She is tiny... so my first description would relate to that. Tight, pressing. Her smell is sweet and clean and her taste is indulgent, I never want to stop. When I use my fingers it is wet and slippery and smoooth. When I use my tongue it is warm and sensuous (for me and her) and when I use my penis it is tight, firm and compatible... we fit.
I drive my wife nuts because I can never get enough of her.
6/23/05 5:13 AM
My first experience eating pussy tasted like buttered baked potatoes. It was glorious.
Vaginas are wonderfully different. Not to knock my wife - who I really love "knocking" with ;) - but my ex gf had three kids and a frightningly tight pussy. She also "gushed".
Like what I've heard from female conversations, it's not necessarily the physical atributes, but really the way it's used. Pussies are the same way. My wife is somewhat loose in feel sinse having our boy, but she's got some nifty muscle control - plus she loves to fuck hard.
So, like cocks, pussies are only as good as their "operators".
On a different vein, pussies come in a delightful variety of flowering shapes... Hard to get bored with those possibilities...
6/25/05 12:50 AM
Vaginas in general are among the most glorious wonders of the Universe. Gorgeous, amazing, the perfect blending of form and function. That said, each one that I've tasted or fingered or fucked has possessed a uniqueness all to itself. A unique temperature, texture, smoothness and slickness that sticks in my mind. Some are fleshy and engorged. Some are tender, glistening pink that begs to be licked. These are my favorites. Those with a tiny bud of a clit... pink and visible. Sensitive to every touch and movement. The heavenly feeling of bouncing my hard cock over the clit as I seek the entrance drive me crazy. Then to feel the circular muscle at the entrance slipping past the rim of my cockhead and onto my shaft... yum! As I slip in, the feeling of each ring of muscle is tangible to me until my balls rest on her ass and the fucking begins in earnest. It's hard to explain but while my brain knows that the natural lubricating juices and the flesh of a vagina are different things, they feel merged as one unit... slippery, warm, wet and welcoming. Hallelujah!
6/26/05 1:48 PM
i agree with most of the previous contributors,,each one is a thing of splendour and delight,and should be treated with the respect it deserves,they are all indeed unique,and can also feel so different depending on the mood of the owner/dominant/submissive/playfull/or really just wanting fucked,,its all part of life's rich tapestry,sort of,,pink and red and ruched,and moist ,with that little button getting bigger ,till it stands out proud,,lovely to look at,and play with
6/30/05 6:44 PM
They come in lots of different shapes and sizes. Moist is good, but only up to a point. Too moist and you just slide with no friction. When going into a smaller woman I'm always careful, I don't want to go too far in and bang her cervix - I think - that's what happens when you go in too deep. I've seen parnters wince occasionally, but not let on. I only found out what that was by overhearing a girly conversation. I was mortified.
The moment you actually enter a new one is electric. She's permitted you to do this, which is wonderful. Also, you never know quite what you are going to find. If she has a tighter entrance I tend to be more vigorous, as theres less chance of accidents: if she's looser I try a wider variety of styles. You can read a vagina and adapt to it. It's as potentially expressive as any other part of the body.
9/14/05 1:07 AM
it truly is a wonderful feeling. like sliding your hand into a glove, contact on all the nooks and crannies. To be honest, as much as I love vaginas, I find an experienced mouth more pleasurable. it has more interaction, regardless of kegal exercises. The nice thing about the vagina is it accomodates a variety of sizes while the mouth is more limited. Ah, the joys of variety
3/15/06 9:59 AM
It feels like power. It doesn't make sense, but being albe to please a woman feels powerful. So it feels like power....and heaven.
7/8/06 1:42 AM
The thought of being literally inside of someone who wants you there...is such a rush, especially when her swollen lips and wetness wrap you in their warmth and need no fake moans to make you feel welcomed, wanted. It makes me rock hard, and because of my upward curve and circumcision, my one firm ridge strokes her many inner ridges, and pushes and pulls along her g-spot. When playtime has been long enough, and she wants to hold back no more, she gets so incredibly focused, rounding and rocking her hips into me as she slides straight and strong and strains to drag my head against her g. The warmth, it seems both from inner temperature itself as well as extra wetness, just before she cums is intense. And then the contractions, the first 2 to 3 especially, pulsing and tickling me...if I stay still and just enjoy her orgasm, I am usually a goner just seconds later, those tender pulsations from within more erotically powerful than any deep-throating or doggy-style slamming could ever be.
8/17/06 3:29 PM
Hi, Folks.
I'm with the gentleman way up the list who said it was both an honour and a pleasure to have his cock in a woman's vagina. However, I'd go several steps further.
For me, there is a feeling of 'going home' as I slide in, of being where I belong and doing what I was meant to do when my cock is inside a woman's vagina. The deeper and stronger the emotional connection with the particular woman, the deeper and stronger are the above feelings.
There is also a feeling of power. The power feeling comes with having a good erection but is mcuh more intense when said erection has been accepted, indeed welcomed, by a woman into her vagina.
And make no mistake about it, the 'welcome' factor is a BIG part of anything I feel when I have my penis in a woman's vagina. The more the lady wants it there, the better it feels.
The above holds true in all but degree with different women. As others have mentioned, there is a different feel from one woman to another. The woman's tightness, muscle control, experience, enthusiasm, mental attitude, emotional involvement etc., all play a part in how strong my feelings are.
To any ladies who may read this, there is an old saying that a woman's sexual success with men is 10% ability and 90% availability. Don't you believe that, girls. The best sex partners I have had were not always the best looking or the most available. They WERE always the most enthusiastic and the most adventurous. And availability does NOT always equate to enthiusiasm.
One more little item of importance - to me at least. I decided quite a long time ago that if I could not love a woman's mind, I would not make love to her body. I may be a way-out for a man, but if I can't find a fair bit to love about the woman who owns the body, I'm not interested in entering the body, or even in getting my hands on the body. Does that make me weird? You know, I don't care if it does. It's me and I'm pretty happy with me.
You all have a wonderful day and great sex lives.
Best wishes.
Deas Plant.
9/23/06 3:56 PM
Hi again, Folks.
I'd add to my post above that the feeling when a woman has an orgasm with my penis inside her, as a direct result of, or maybe even in spite of (How am I to know unless she tells?) said penis being inside said woman is something that I have found nowhere else in life. It is beyond comparing with anything else in my experience.
I can only describe it as glorious and fulfilling joy and it is so much better if it happens for both of us at around the same time.
Words like soft, smooth, wet, warm, velvety, welcoming, all come to mind and all are part of the experience.
This is made more difiicult 'cos it's been a while. Some-one care to refresh my memory?
You all have a wonderful day and great sex life.
Best wishes.
Deas Plant.
9/23/06 4:14 PM
So not only do the pussies of different women feel different, as many have said, being inside the same woman feels different at different times and in different positions. Missionary feels different than doggy, which in turn feels different from her on top or spooning.
With spooning, you feel more friction of her external body—her ass, her labia majora. Any time she has her legs together rather than spread, the effect is similar.
If she hasn't cum, she is generally tighter, I find, and drier, so a friction factor comes into play. After she has cum, she is wetter and more swollen inside, though generally looser than otherwise.
Fucking her doggy style, she feels looser, but I have found it easier to hit her cervix, which is not necessarily a good thing depending on the woman.
Missionary with her legs splayed apart is heaven. Feeling the head of my cock break past the initial resistance of the gateway. Once inside, it is like a velvet glove, a velvet sheath. (This is also where her pussy differs from anal, as her ass won't feel like a glove; it is more of a void...but I digress.)
As Avatar has been so kind to point out, a shaven pussy—specifically around her lips—feels so much different for both parties. Personally, I feel pubic hair on a pussy is a distraction, either when eating it or fucking it.
Finally, her reaction to receiving a cock in her cunt can alter the entire experience.
Hmmm...
12/29/06 6:17 AM
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